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Becoming today who you want to be tomorrow.


Do you ever just want someone to help you figure life out

Packed with lessons Bianca learned from her own mistakes and heartache, this field guide will help you avoid unnecessary detours on the path to your best self. With her signature wit, engaging stories, and brilliant insights from a counselor friend, Bianca gives spot-on advice for adulting, career, relationships, and faith. Following the biblical story of Ruth and Naomi, Bianca's humorous and honest anecdotes will empower you to create a successful life and discover all you can be.

This curated manual for the modern woman will help you:

  • Connect with a mentor, let go of bad friendships, and find a relationship worth keeping
  • Trust the goodness of God even in loss, betrayal, and unanswered questions
  • Take initiative, do hard things, and achieve meaningful success
  • Fall in love with God's Word and see the Bible come alive

The perfect cocktail of sass and down-to-earth guidance, How to Have Your Life Not Suck is just the book you need to navigate your way to the life you want to live. More than that, Bianca will show you that though life is tough, you are, too.


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  • Receive a seven-session video Bible study taught by Bianca with downloadable study guide PDF!
  • Downloadable customized guide to the 10 Commandments of Dating!
  • Interactive dating assessment online test
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  • Start reading early with a digital sampler of the book
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Meet Bianca

Bianca Juarez Olthoff is best-selling author of Play with Fire and How to Have Your Life Not Suck. She is a passionate Jesus-loving, bible-teaching, book-writing MexiRican who loves to help people navigate life, connect in community, and live significantly. Bianca is passionate about inspiring the next generation to discover life and purpose in Jesus.

As founder and President of In The Name of Love, she is committed to the incarcerated and equipping inmates to discover freedom despite their surroundings. Through conferences and resources, she travels to host gatherings for both men and women.

Knowing the power of words and how to wield them wisely, Bianca travels over 40 times a year both domestically and internationally to speak at conferences, churches, and colleges.